It’s Already Yours
Here’s something about me that we may have in common…
If I want something to happen, I want it like yesterday.
My husband has to pull on my reins because if I am a full body YES to something, I will do whatever it takes to make it happen.
This may look like:Stressing myself out
OverwhelmingDoing too much at one timeTaking on too much at one timeNot taking care of myselfInstant spiral of frustration of why isn’t this happening faster
Sound familiar?
I know it does. Us female entrepreneurs can be competitive and the worst competition we have can be with ourselves.
This turns into feelings of “we aren’t enough” or “we can’t make it happen”.
I see this a lot in my clients as well.
I have worked through these feelings especially over the last two years and have leaned into more of the manifestation side of things (where I think of where I want to go or what I want to happen, I visualize it, I never forget it but then I trust that the decisions I am making on a daily basis will get me close to that).
If I look back on my life the last decade, this has truly been what has happened for me;
Examples include:-Telling myself that the person I will marry is someone that I will make the move for; not just accepting and molding myself into a relationship just because the other person wants me to.
-Moving to Chicago and having a lake view.
-Finding a bigger apartment in the suburbs that we love.
And all of these instances seemingly “happened out of nowhere”. There was no hard core step by step plan to achieve these things. I/We wanted them to happen and the timeline was out of our control.
So when you want to grow your business and sign clients, there has to be trust in this situation.
Like “OF COURSE you are going to sign clients” if you keep doing what you are doing.
OF COURSE you are going to make six figures if you keep working towards it.
The beauty of letting it go is that the timeline doesn’t exist.
It has already happened for you.
And as I’m typing this I literally cannot even believe that I am saying these types of things because Lauren 1-2 years ago would have said this was all BS.
What I will say is the stress is less these days because of this mindset.
I am not perfect and still get into that mindset of “never enough” but at the same time the feelings are bigger of “yes of course this is going to happen” vibes.
So keep on your journey today; and know that whatever you want, if you TRULY want it and it’s what your mind, body and soul crave, it is already yours.
